When it comes to romance, few capture the magic of love as beautifully as Nancy Meyers. Whether it’s the heartwarming family moments in Father of the Bride, the stunning visuals of It’s Complicated, or the cozy, feel-good charm of The Holiday, her films are a masterclass in creating enchanting stories. That’s why borrowing her signature style can add a touch of sophistication and warmth to your wedding day.
“Think breezy venues, soft pastel tones, and a sprinkle of playful charm—all coming together to create an unforgettable mood,” says event manager Farizah Willems. “Envision a wedding that’s timeless, romantic, and full of comfort,” adds wedding planner Kelsey Johnson. And the best part? The Nancy Meyers look works anywhere, whether you’re hosting a backyard gathering or a destination celebration—as long as you know the right elements to set the scene.
Meet the Experts
Farizah Willems is the events planning manager at Hyatt Regency Aruba Resort, Spa & Casino.
Kelsey Johnson is the owner and lead wedding planner of Simply Enchanted Events in Orlando, Florida.
We asked both experts to share their tips for throwing a wedding straight out of a Nancy Meyers film. Below, you’ll find everything you need to know—from venue ideas to décor, fashion, and more.
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What Is a Nancy Meyers-Inspired Wedding Aesthetic?
According to Johnson, a Nancy Meyers-inspired wedding blends understated elegance with cottagecore charm, mirroring the cozy, nostalgic feel of her films. “Nancy Meyers’ movies bring families together with a sense of warmth and nostalgia,” Willems adds.
This aesthetic isn’t about flashy installations or dramatic flair. Instead, picture soft lighting, fresh flowers, and thoughtful details that highlight your love story. The day should feel effortlessly refined, with personal touches woven throughout. Whether you choose a tropical getaway or your own backyard, the key is mixing modern elegance with a hint of whimsy.
How to Plan a Nancy Meyers-Inspired Wedding
To create a wedding that feels like a scene from a Nancy Meyers movie, focus on details and timeless sophistication. Johnson suggests picking a venue with classic charm—think a picturesque estate or an outdoor space blending modern and historic elements. For décor, keep it chic yet simple: soft lighting, cozy seating, and personal mementos that tell your story. Working with an experienced planner can help tie everything together seamlessly.
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Nancy Meyers-Inspired Wedding Venues
Willems notes that the Nancy Meyers aesthetic works in many settings. “Open-air terraces, beachfront ceremonies, gardens, or traditional ballrooms—anywhere with natural light and space for communal dining fits perfectly,” she says. Here are a few venue ideas for your big day:
A Beach-Side Resort
Sunset vows by the water are pure romance, making a beachside resort an ideal choice. Picture a waterfront ceremony followed by dancing under a starlit tent. Start your day with a spa session, then toast to your new chapter in paradise.
An English Cottage Escape
For a cottagecore vibe, consider a venue inspired by English cottages—no transatlantic flight required. Look for places with lush gardens, cozy fireplaces, afternoon tea, or even a pub for the after-party.
An Elegant Ballroom
Transform a classic ballroom into a dreamy setting. Luxury hotels like The Ritz-Carlton or The Edition offer timeless elegance, perfect for an evening of live music, soft lighting, and exquisite floral arrangements.
A Charming Vineyard
Vineyards offer rustic elegance with modern comforts—think The Parent Trap without the drama. Exchange vows among the vines, then celebrate with farm-to-table dining and firelit lounges.
Your Own Backyard
For a Father of the Bride-style wedding, turn your backyard into a romantic retreat. String lights, elegant florals, and plush seating create an intimate, sophisticated atmosphere—all while keeping things cozy and personal.
Nancy Meyers-Inspired Fashion and Beauty
Willems explains that attire should reflect the effortless grace of Meyers’ films. Brides might choose a flowing silk or chiffon gown in a simple cut—A-line, sheath, or empire waist—with delicate lace or an off-the-shoulder neckline. Soft waves and natural makeup complete the look.
Grooms can opt for lightweight linen or cotton suits for outdoor settings, or classic black/navy for evening affairs. Stick to muted tones and avoid bold patterns. For guests, suggest dress codes like “Beach Chic” or “Cottagecore Cocktail” to match the relaxed elegance.
Nancy Meyers-Inspired Wedding Décor
Create warmth with soft lighting—Edison bulbs, twinkling candles—and fresh floral centerpieces (hydrangeas, roses, peonies). Johnson recommends mixing tall and short vases with greenery for texture.
For tables, use linen tablecloths, mismatched china (a Meyers signature), vintage silverware, and crystal glassware. Add lounge areas with cozy pillows and blankets to encourage mingling.
Nancy Meyers-Inspired Food and Drinks
Keep the menu simple yet refined. Willems suggests family-style dishes, including a cherished family recipe. Johnson recommends a bespoke drink station with custom garnishes and a colorful grazing table for cocktail hour.
Nancy Meyers-Inspired Wedding Entertainment
Live music sets the tone—think acoustic guitar for the ceremony and a versatile band for the reception. Lanterns along the aisle add a romantic glow as the sun sets.
Final Touches
Send guests home with artisanal favors like local honey or wine. Choose a photographer who can capture the soft, cinematic feel of the day.
Ultimately, your wedding should reflect your love story with the same warmth and charm as a Nancy Meyers film. Every detail—from the venue to the vows—should feel personal, creating memories as timeless as her movies.