Bachelorette Party Fashion: What to Wear (Without Losing Your Personal Style)
Like it or not, fashion is usually a big deal at bachelorette parties. Whether you’re the bride or a guest, you’ll probably end up in matching T-shirts, coordinated swimsuits, or playful sashes that poke fun at your personality. But if dressing like a uniformed squad isn’t your thing, don’t worry—you can still plan (or attend) a bachelorette bash without sacrificing your personal style.
For example, if you’re the maid of honor organizing a destination party, ask guests to wear their favorite outfits in a specific color scheme (like earthy browns, bold reds, or deep greens). That way, the group looks cohesive without being overly matchy. Hosts can also suggest a dress code or theme so everyone feels polished—just not identical. After all, just because it’s a bachelorette party doesn’t mean everyone has to ditch their everyday style.
That said, there are some unspoken fashion rules for brides and guests. To break them down, we asked three experts—Jessica Janik (founder of bridal concierge service The Invisible Bridesmaid), Jen Glantz (founder of Bridesmaids for Hire), and Jane Lu (CEO of fashion retailer Showpo)—for their best tips on bachelorette party attire. Here’s what you need to know, whether you’re the bride, a guest, or the host.
Meet the Experts:
- Jessica Janik: Founder of The Invisible Bridesmaid, helping brides with pre-wedding planning.
- Jen Glantz: Founder of Bridesmaids for Hire and author of All My Friends Are Engaged and Always a Bridesmaid (For Hire).
- Jane Lu: Founder and CEO of Showpo, a global online fashion retailer.
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Bachelorette Party Style Tips for Brides
As the bride, your bachelorette party is your “last hurrah” before the wedding. Here’s how to nail your outfits for this milestone event.
1. You Don’t Have to Wear White
Traditionally, brides wear white for pre-wedding events—but if your style leans bold, feel free to skip it. “It’s your bachelorette—wear whatever makes you feel AMAZING!” says Lu. “Modern brides can stick to tradition or go totally unique. The key is feeling confident and happy in your outfit, whether it’s classic or totally you.”
2. Skip Expensive Clothes & Accessories
“Prioritize affordable, practical pieces over pricey ones,” advises Lu. “Bachelorette parties get wild, and you don’t want to stress about ruining a designer dress. Save that budget for wedding-day accessories or fun experiences instead!”
3. Embrace Fun, Flirty Styles
This is your celebration—so go for looks that match the party vibe. Lu’s top picks:
- Sequin dresses: Glamorous and perfect for a night out (“The Shook Mini Dress in champagne is a showstopper!”).
- Sleek jumpsuits: Chic and comfy (“The Malisha Jumpsuit is my go-to”).
- Statement mini dresses: Bold and versatile (“The Allisyn Mini Dress is a classic”).
- Trendy two-piece sets: Playful and stylish (“The Amalee Fringe Skirt Set adds serious flair”).
Bachelorette Party Style Tips for Guests
1. Don’t Wear White
Unless the bride says otherwise, avoid white—it’s her color. “Stick to a little black dress or another solid shade,” says Janik.
2. Just Go With It
If the bride wants matching shirts or a specific color, play along—it’s her day. But if you’re truly uncomfortable, politely ask the host for alternatives.
3. Keep It Classy
“You don’t need to wear the tightest, shortest outfit just because it’s a bachelorette party,” says Janik. “Remember, family might see the photos later—so dress in a way you won’t regret.”
FAQ
Do we have to wear matching outfits?
Nope! But if you do want matching elements, keep it simple. “Pick one item—like T-shirts or tote bags—and let everyone style the rest their way,” says Glantz.
What should hosts avoid when planning outfits?
“Skip ‘one size fits all’ or uncomfortable looks,” says Janik. “Offer options—like one-piece and bikini styles for pool parties.”
